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How does one succeed in life?

14.06.2025 05:58

How does one succeed in life?

Does not procrastinate.

Making more friends is a goal.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Have you ever been instructed/forced to crossdress for the benefit of others?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

What has been your best sexual experience?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

What is the dirtiest thing you have witnessed your wife do?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Why am I attracted to older men?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Ask yourself:

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Why do diabetic people sweat so much?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Atheists who said that reading the Bible made them an atheist, how? Literally there are millions of people who read the Bible daily and still believe in God. So why say that? I mean unless you want to sound smart & edgy

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

What were the first few days, weeks, months and then years like after finding out about your spouses infidelity? How did your feelings, and yours & their approach to the situation change in the immediate aftermath compared to later down the line?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

How do Flat Earthers explain time zones?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

That's it for today.

How do the police verify the authenticity of an online profile? What methods do they use to determine if a profile is real or fake?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Why is Taylor Swift re-recording her albums?

Procrastinates a lot.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

I caught my neighbor leaving his 12-year-old son home alone and he has not come back in 6 hours. Should I call CPS?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Why cant I sleep? When I'm about to fall asleep, I get excited that im about to sleep, causing me to wake up again. It repeats till my sleepiness is gone. I tried taking melatonin and not using my phone, but I end upawake for hours.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

At what stage in your life did you realize, "No, I can't do this any more" and walk out? Why?

What I need from you?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

What is the experience of wearing a school uniform every day? Do people typically get used to it or dislike it?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.